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GOD BLESS OUR TROOPS-THANK YOU!
                               ADOPT
A SOLDIER FOR THE HOLIDAYS


 


NEW TROOPS ARE NEEDED! If you know someone in the Mililitary who would LOVE recieving letters from ALL OVER THE WORLD- email me the Troops Name and Military address to:


ravierave@bigdaddiproductions.com


Let's Show our Men and Women how much we care by doing MORE than pretty pictures - A simple postcard or letter says Thank You, so much more!

l thought that I thoroughly listed every possible question people who have as far as participation. With the tons of emails I have received - I OBVIOUSLY didn't. 

Frequently Asked Questions:

How do I address the envelop?
 A: EXACTLY AS YOU SEE IT TYPED


How do I choose a soldier/Which soldier should I write to/Can I write to the entire Troop?
A: You choose whomever or the entire Troop if that is where your heart leads you. I am not monitoring if everyone who says they are writing are. You know your spirit. If you say you are helping you will be acknowledged.

I have relatives in the military, can you add them to your list?
A: ABSOLUTELY. Email me the information and address and they will be listed

I see you have the Army insignia-are other branches of the military welcome?

A: ABSOLUTELY!! Send me the info and they will be listed!


Do you have to be a United States Citizen to write to the soldiers?
A: No, as I have a WORLDWIDE Audience, you can participate in sending letters/care packages-Just follow the list of what is allowed

What can I send? (This one boggles my mind)
A: There is a COMPLETE LIST right here on the site on this page of what is Needed as well as What you CAN'T send.

What are the other tabs and why are they there?

A: This is my website. I have my radio show that plays when you come to the site, my social network feeds, my blog, messageboard, dating site, and my stores.


If I buy something from the Amazon stores on your site, will the soldiers receive it?
A: NO. It will be delivered to YOU-unless you specify the APO address.


Am I required to purchase from your stores only in order for a soldier to receive their package?
A: Absolutely Not. You can purchase from the store of your choosing.


Which soldiers are single?
A: I have NO IDEA, but if you are looking for a DATE, right here on the site is a tab for The Cozy Sparks. It  IS my dating site, try your luck there.


What is the guestbook for?
A: I despise SPAM and I surely won't SPAM anyone. If you sign the Guestbook, you will be acknowledged by Najla Arrington,- whom this list couldn't be possible without her tireless help.



Things to Send

When you get your boxes, it’s time to decide what to put in them. Basically it divides into three categories: food, hygiene, and entertainment. 

Food includes snacks of all types, candy, dried fruit, chips, dips, cans of soup with pull-tops and Easy Mac, packages of tuna or those little packets of tuna salad and crackers, etc. In the summer, soldiers need to keep hydrated. Send single serving tubes of Crystal Light, Gatorade, etc. They are perfect for a canteen. Also spice packets, like the kind you get from Del Taco or Taco Bell. It’s amazing how much better an MRE tastes when it doesn’t taste like an MRE at all.

If you have a Soldier or a Marine, your priority should be things that are nutritionally dense—real food—rather than candy.  In the field, the troops get two meals a day.  Sailors and Airmen may be on ships or remote bases and so have better access to meals.  They may also, however, be in the field with the same access to meals as the Army and Marine Corps.  If your soldier prefers cookies to beef jerky, he or she will let you know.

Aim for smaller sized units. For example, you can buy an entire package of Oreos, or you can buy a mini package that has six cookies in it. It’s easier to divvy up several mini packages of Oreos. It’s easier to shove a mini package of Oreos in your pocket before you go out on patrol. And it’s easier to eat a mini package of Oreos before sand gets in the cookies.

Also, send your soldier some packs of individually wrapped candies, like peppermints or caramels.  Soldiers love to give these to the children they meet.

Chocolate

In the summer, it is over 100 degrees daily in Iraq and pretty warm in Afghanistan.  The chocolate season is from November through February, only.  This presents us with a problem.  Soldiers love chocolate.  (I firmly believe that the chocolate gene is very near the patriotism gene.) But you can’t send candy bars.

However, some excellent chocolate things that do ship well include snack cakes, like Hostess and Little Debbie.  All those artificial sugars and transfats extend the shelf life. 

After your soldier knows you, you can send homemade goodies.  Homemade brownies work well, generally, but not cakes, which tend to mold during transit.  Try freezing the brownies, wrapping in freezer paper and aluminum foil, and taking right to the post office.  They will take several days to thaw completely.  Chocolate chip cookies provide holdable surfaces, and actually benefit from the heat.  The goo chips taste like they came right from the oven.

Consider sending a bottle or can of Hershey’s syrup (in a zipper bag) and about 20 spoons.  It only has to be refrigerated if there is any left.  There won’t be.

M&M’s were actually designed for desert combat.  For best bets, send the minis that come in tubes.  If they do melt, your soldier can just pour them into his mouth.

Baking

You can send home baked goods, with certain caveats.  Butter, margarine, nuts, and peanut butter contain fats that will go rancid in the heat.  Brown sugar, corn sugar, honey, and molasses cause foods to get moldy.

has some tried and tested recipes available on their site.

Hygiene includes disposable razors, toothbrushes and paste, sample sizes of shampoo and soap, dental floss, hand lotion, lip balm, and toilet paper (remove the tube for easier packing, or fill the tube with breakable items, like small bottles of Tabasco, sealed in a zip-lock bag).  It also includes over-the-counter medicines like Advil or Tylenol, Pepto-Bismol, Tums, Band-Aids, athlete’s foot cream, sun tan lotion (45 SPF or higher), bug spray, hand lotion, Halls, Kleenex, etc.  Paint brushes (like the kind you use to paint rooms) are excellent for cleaning rifles, but you might have to tell your recipient what it's for. 

Include lots of hand sanitizing liquid and baby wipes.  Your soldier does not have the opportunity to bathe every day.  This stuff helps keep things sanitary.

Send toothbrushes regularly.  Besides the fact that they get gritty, the old ones are great for polishing boots.

Entertainment includes AA-batteries, decks of cards, paper, envelopes, pens, puzzle magazines, travel games, books, magazines, maybe DVD’s or CD’s or PlayStation or XBox games.  For those last things, wait until you "know" your soldier and then ask.  You don't want to send Xbox games to a unit that only has a PlayStation. 

Soldiers also enjoy getting phone cards.  Phone cards need to be AT&T, the only service that works from the combat zones.  You can purchase cards online at http://www.angelsstore.org.  You can also purchase them from places like Costco and Sam’s Club and the Post Office.  Remember that it costs several “minutes” for each minute of talk time from overseas to the US.  A 20 minute phone card will barely get a soldier a 2 minute call home.

You might also send weather appropriate items of apparel such as mittens and socks in the winter, tan or desert-camo bandanas and shower shoes (flip-flops/zuris) in the summer.  In the spring, soldiers like sand scarves to keep the sand off their faces.  These should be in tan or military camo colours and made of t-shirt material.  You can purchase or make Cool Scarves, which contain absorbent chemicals that hold cool water and can help keep a soldier's neck cool for up to twelve hours.

As a special treat, send your soldier a pillow and two plain white pillowcases.  If you squish the air out of the pillow, it becomes quite flat.  

Things Not to Send

Do not send alcohol or foods containing alcohol.  Do not send things in spray cans such as shaving cream (it comes in tubes, too).  They tend to explode in the heat.  Do not send certain types of magazines.  Magazines should not bare the bathing suit bottom area and for women should not display the nipples.  There are some magazines that feature racy photos, like FHM.  These magazines are OK, if you personally do not feel uncomfortable sending them.  Personally, I send Time, Entertainment Weekly, and Sports Illustrated.

Things You May Send If Requested

Because we are in a Muslim country, and do not wish to offend our hosts, we do not send religious materials other than for personal use.  If your soldier requests a Bible, you may send a Bible.  Do not send thirty Bibles for your soldier to distribute to his unit unless he requests this.

Hygiene Items

  1. toilet Paper - take out the cardboard and flatten

  2. sun block (at least SPF-15) and insect repellant, aloe vera gel

  3. liquid hand sanitizer

  4. baby wipes and refills, Avon Skin So Soft

  5. toothbrushes and toothpaste

  6. dental floss and mouth wash

  7. disposable razors and shave gel or foam

  8. Keri lotion (not oil based, for faces)

  9. Chap Stick or Carmex, talcum powder

  10. Q-tips, face cloths, big fluffy towels (for the ladies), facial cleansing pads

  11. nail clippers, files, nail polish (neutral colors)

  12. deodorant, shampoo, bar soap, body wash (liquid)

  13. feminine hygiene products

  14. hair bands, clips, hair spray, hair gel, brushes and combs

  15. eye drops

  16. facial tissues, saline nasal spray, Dayquil, Nyquil, Tussin

  17. small mirrors

  18. contact lens cleaner

  19. after shave lotion

  20. light weight tan or Army green colored cloth 10" X 36" (also called a "sand scarf")

  21. Cool Scarf

Food

  1. tea bags

  2. dried fruit

  3. beef or turkey jerky

  4. Slim Jims (they go fast)

  5. powdered Gatorade, Crystal Light in 1 qt tubes

  6. cookies in package or Ziploc bag

  7. crackers, easy cheese

  8. Chex Mix

  9. small Pringles

  10. gum, hard candy, Tic Tacs, breath mints

  11. trail mix

  12. granola bars

  13. tuna

  14. spices, condiments

  15. summer sausage

  16. power bars

  17. Kool Aid (with sugar)

  18. dry cereal (individual boxes)

  19. Little Debbie snack cakes

  20. Ragu Express

  21. powdered drinks, juice boxes

  22. sunflower seeds

  23. instant soups

  24. instant oatmeal & grits

  25. microwave popcorn
    (if your soldier has access to a microwave)

  26. Kraft Easy Mac

Entertainment

  1. magazines, jokes & comics

  2. crosswords, word search puzzles, pens & pencils

  3. paperback books or novels

  4. local newspapers, post cards from your home town

  5. small flash lights or book lights

  6. disposable cameras

  7. Frisbees, Nerf footballs, basketballs, electronic hand held games, CDs & players, hackie sacks, Yo-Yo's, Kids drawings, squirt guns to keep dust down,

  8. envelopes and writing paper

  9. boxes of assorted greeting cards

  10. batteries, especially AA and AAA

  11. AT&T phone cards

Miscellaneous


  1. plain black sunglasses
  2. socks (plain black or white), t-shirts, underwear (various sizes)
  3. clorox wipes
  4. Zip lock bags
  5. powdered laundry detergent, dryer sheets



Thanks to Any Soldier.com for the compiled list!


Every year so many folks wait until the holidays to send their packages that units are buried, not to mention the APO/FPO. Please keep in mind that most units have no place for massive amounts of packages, nor the means to move them.

So, what are you supposed to do? Simple, really.

                                                        Things NOT to Send:

  • Illegal copies of anything. Period.
  • Home-cooked anything.
    Note: Due to concerns for the health and safety of the Soldiers, and as much as we don't want to say this, please do not send home-cooked anything to Soldiers other then to your relatives or people who know you. Factory packaged only. Sorry. The Soldiers are told to throw away anything that is not in a factory package.

  • LARGE SHIPMENTS
    Especially during the holidays. Send SMALL boxes (say under 10 pounds) and no more than 3 to any single address in the same day. Don't be part of the log jam, be part of the solution.

  • You should never send more then 5 packages to the same address at the same time. Actually, 1-2 a day is best. Chances are you are not the only person sending something and the soldiers will have to deal with the packages on their down time, which isn't much at all.


    We can't stress this enough:


    NO large shipments at the same time to the same address. Ever.

    Send early. OK, you knew that. Holiday shipping dates from the USPS are posted on this web site as soon as we get them.

    Keep the packages SMALL!!!
    Remember, this is about support, not just stuff. Think about this: Mail call, the Soldier hears his/her name called out, with joy he/she gazes toward the box that the mail clerk points to. Friggin box is bigger than the tent he/she lives in. Weighs more then a Battalion Commander! Not cool...


    If you use this site and send anything prohibited or illegal to any of our Soldiers, you will be hunted down, caught and prosecuted! I can tell you for a fact that The F.B.I. is and will continue to investigate any and all violations!!!!




    Thanks to Any Soldier.com for the compiled list!


    Tips and Hints:

  • There is NO guarantee you will get a reply from the Soldier that got your package. However, if you want to increase your chances of getting a reply, pre-address an envelope to yourself, a few pieces of paper, a pen and put them in your package. No need for a stamp on the envelope. In your letter to the Soldier which you also put in the box, ask him/her to drop you a quick note or more and ask if there is anything in particular you can send. Better chance you get a reply with that...

  • Easy test: Would you send (whatever) to your mother?

  • "As you might know, on occasion the Afghanistans have no problem supplying movie DVD's at a fraction of the cost back home. What you are not aware of is the fact that those movies are stolen off the bases and sold back to the soldiers. I recommend that when you supply that information to those who send packages and to the soldiers/Marines whom apply for items to be sent in, that they mark the movies to prevent unscrupulous individuals from benefiting from the unwary." Colonel, USMC.
    We strongly suggest that if you send any CDs or DVDs, use a permanent magic marker and simply put "Adopt A Soldier" on both the cover and CD/DVD. It won't take long before these won't be a target anymore... -Marty
  • Remember the many women Soldiers there! If your package is intended for a woman, be sure to address the package, "Attn: Any Female Soldier".

  • T-Shirts: Don't send the wrong type! Contact Extreme Outfitters (888) 972-7040 to help with these. They are the experts and ship FREE!!!

  • Boot socks, Beanie caps, etc: Stuff from the Dollar Store, Walmart, etc are cheap but won't last. Contact Extreme Outfitters (888) 972-7040 to help with these. They are the experts and ship FREE!!!

  • The Air Force in deployed locations no longer wears BDUs.
    It is now the ABUs with Sand color T-shirts (Much like the Army)
    And the socks are the dark green socks the Army uses.
    We still use the DCUs also for a few more months/years from now.
    We are still authorized BDUs out of the AOR tho. (Info from SrA Sterne, thanks!!)

  • ALL items which contain liquids and pastes (even in cans), put in a zip-lock bag, and a second one up-side-down from the first one. If an item can leak, it will.

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    We would love to hear from you. Drop us a line at:
                ravierave@bigdaddiproductions.com